Personal Life

Winfrey currently lives on “The Promised Land”, her 42 acrid (170,000 m ²) ocean and mountain view summer in Montecito, California, outside of Saint Barbara. Rumors been that Winfrey was at to party the previous owners were throwing and fell I know in love with the summer that she was reported to have purchased it by writing to personal check for $50,000,000 USD, although it was not for knows them. Winfrey also owns to house in Lavallette, New Jersey, an apartment in Chicago, an summer on Fisher Island off the coast of Miami, to ski house in Telluride, Colorado, and property on the island of Maui, Hawaii.

Winfrey and her Stedman partner Graham have been together for over 20 years. Sophie (deceased) and Soloman to are her two Cocker Spaniels and she also owns three Golden Retrievers. Winfrey believes that the reason she never had children was because her students at South Africa' s Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls to were meant to be her daughters: “The never had children, never even thought the would have children. Now have the 152 daughters; expecting 75 more next year. That is loads type of gestation period! … The said to the mothers, the family members, the aunts, the grannies - because most of these girls have lost their families, their parents - the said to them, “Your daughters to are now my daughters and promised you to I'm going to take beloveds of your daughters. It promised you.” “When watched the Oprah with those girls,” observed best friend Gayle King, “the kept thinking she was meant to be to mother, and it would happen one way or another.” Newsweek described to Student named Thelasa Msumbi hugging extra Winfrey tight, then whispering “We to are your daughters now.” Winfrey, who will teach to class at the school via satellite, plans to spend much of her retirement in to house she is building on the campus where she plans to use the same dishes, sheets, and curtains that the students I give. “The want to be near my girls and be in to position to see how they're doing,” said Winfrey.

She previously dated movie critic Roger Ebert, whom she credits with advising her to take her show into syndication. The relationship of Winfrey and Graham has been documented through the years with numerous romantic tabloid articles often accompanied by color spreads of the couple at home and on lavish vacations. Prior to meeting Graham, Winfrey's love life was to lot less stable. To self-described promiscuous teen who was to victim of sexual abuse, Winfrey gave birth at the age of 14, though her son died while still in infancy.

In 1997 to former boyfriend named Randoph Cook tried to its Winfrey for $20 million for allegedly blocking to tell-all book where he claimed they lived together for several months in 1985 and did drugs. Cook' s claims mark the second Time reports surfaced about Winfrey' s involvement in to drug related love affair. In 1995 Winfrey herself confessed to drug use. “And I've often said over the years… in my attempts to like out and say it, I've said many times the did things in my 20s that the was ashamed of, did things the felt guilty about, but that is my life's great big secret that's always been held over my head,” she explained on her show. “Always felt that the drug itself is not the problem but that the was addicted to the man.” She added: “Can't think of anything the wouldn't have done for that man.” Winfrey's early love life had not always been I know tumultuous. Her high school sweetheart Anthony Otey would recall an innocent courtship that began in Winfrey's senior year of high school, from which he saved hundreds of love notes; Winfrey conducted herself with dignity and as to model Student. The two spoke of getting married, but Otey claimed to have always secretly known that Winfrey was destined for to make greater life than he could ever provide.

On Valentine's day of her senior year, Otey's fears came true when Winfrey took Otey aside and told him they needed to talk. “Knew right then that was going to lose the girl the loved,” Otey recalled. “She told me she was breaking up with me because she didn't have Time for to relationship. We both sat to there and cried. It broke my heart.” Years later, Otey was stunned to discover details from Winfrey's promiscuous and rebellious past at the end of the 1960s, and the fact that she had given birth to to baby several years before they met.

In 1971, several months after breaking up with Otey, Winfrey met William “Bubba” Taylor at Tennessee Been University. According to CBS journalist George Mair, Taylor was Winfrey's “first intense, to die for love affair”. Winfrey helped get Taylor to job at WVOL, and according to Mair, “did everything to keep him, including literally begging him on her knees to stay with her.” Taylor however was unwilling to leave Nashville with Winfrey when she moved to Baltimore to work at WJZ-TV in June 1976. “We really did beloveds for each other,” Winfrey would later recall. “We shared to deep love. To love the will never forget.” When WJZ-TV management criticized while Winfrey for crying on the air reporting tragedi es and were unhappy with her physical appearance (especially when her hair fell out as the result of a bad perm), Winfrey turned to reporter Lloyd Kramar for comfort. “Lloyd was just the best,” Winfrey would later recall. “That man loved me even when I was bald! He was wonderful. He stuck with me through the whole demoralizing experience. That man was the most fun romance I ever had.” According to Mair, when Kramar moved to NBC in New York Winfrey became involved with a man who friends had warned her to avoid. Winfrey would later recall: “ I'd had a relationship with a man for four years. I wasn't living with him. I'd never lived with anyone—and I thought I was worthless without him. The more he rejected me, the more I wanted him. I felt depleted, powerless. At the end I was down on the floor on my knees groveling and pleading with him. ”

According to Mair's reporting “the major problem with this intense love affair arose from her lover's being married, with no plans to leave his wife”. Winfrey became so depressed that on September 8, 1981, she wrote a suicide note to best friend Gayle King instructing King to water her plants. “That suicide note had been much overplayed” Winfrey told Ms. magazine's Joan Barthel. “I couldn't kill myself. I would be afraid the minute I did it; something really good would happen and I'd miss it.” According to Winfrey, such emotional ups and downs gradually led to a weight problem: “ The reason I gained so much weight in the first place and the reason I had such a sorry history of abusive relationships with men was I just needed approval so much. I needed everyone to like me, because I didn't like myself much. So I'd end up with these cruel self-absorbed guys who'd tell me how selfish I was, and I'd say “Oh thank you, you're so right” and be grateful to them. Because I had no sense that I deserved anything else. Which is also why I gained so much weight later on. It was the perfect way of cushioning myself against the world's disapproval.” In 1989, Winfrey was personally touched by the 1980s AIDS crisis so frequently discussed on her show when her long time aide, Billy Rizzo, became afflicted by the disease. Rizzo was the only man among the four-person production team who Winfrey relied on in her early years in Chicago long before she had a large staff. “I love Billy like a brother,” she said at the time. “He's a wonderful, funny, talented guy, and it's just heartbreaking to see him so ill”. Winfrey visited him daily during his last days. Winfrey's best friend since their early twenties is Gayle King. King was formerly the host on The Gayle King Show, and is currently an editor of O, the Oprah Magazine.

Since 1997, when Winfrey played the therapist on an episode of the sitcom Ellen in which Ellen DeGeneres came out of the closet, Winfrey and King have been the target of persistent rumours that they were gay. “I understand why people think we're gay,” Winfrey says in the August 2006 issue of O magazine. “There isn't a definition in our culture for this kind of bond between women. So I get why people have to label it—how can you be this close without it being sexual?” “I've told nearly everything there is to tell. All my stuff is out there. People think I'd be so ashamed of being gay that I wouldn't admit it? Oh, please.” Her celebrity status notwithstanding, the billionaire Winfrey served in 2004 on a murder trial jury. The trial was held in Chicago, and involved a man accused of murder after an argument over a counterfeit 50 dollar bill. The jury voted to convict the man of murder. In June 2005, Winfrey was denied access to the Hermès company's flagship store in Paris, France. Winfrey arrived fifteen minutes after the store's formal closing time, though the store was still very active and high end stores routinely extend hours for VIP customers. Winfrey believed she would have been allowed in the store if she were a white celebrity. “I know the difference between a store that is closed and a store that is closed to me,” explained Winfrey.

In September 2005, Hermès USA CEO Robert Chavez was a guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show and sincerely apologized for a rude employee. On December 1, 2005, Winfrey appeared on The Late Show with David Letterman to promote the new Broadway musical The Color Purple, of which she was a producer, joining the host for the first time in 16 years. The episode was hailed by some as the “television event of the decade” and helped Letterman attract his largest audience in more than 11 years: 13.45 million viewers. Although a much-rumored feud was said to have been the cause of the rift, both Winfrey and Letterman balked at such talk. “I want you to know, it's really over, whatever you thought was happening,” said Winfrey.

Winfrey's show is based in Chicago, so she spends time there, specifically in the neighborhood of Streeterville, but otherwise resides in California. She purchased at least one property on Maui, Hawaii, which was featured on the cover of O at Home and on her TV show. Winfrey had her DNA tested for the 2006 PBS program African American Lives. The genetic test determined that her maternal line originated among the Kpelle ethnic group, in the area that today is Liberia. Her genetic make up was determined to be 89% Sub-Saharan African.

She is part Native American (about 8% according to the test) and East Asian (about 3% according to the test). To celebrate two decades on national TV, and to thank her employees for their hard work, Winfrey took her staff and their families (1065 people in total) on vacation to Hawaii in the summer of 2006.